I had the privilege of listening to the President and CEO of a global high-tech manufacturing company share his insights on leadership last Friday, as the stock market was imploding and the foundation of
One of the first things he shared with a group of high-potential leaders who had just finished a week-long business simulation-centric training program to develop their business acumen and business leadership skills was, “Don’t be a victim.”
I thought a lot about what he shared on the flight home from California and over the weekend. Sharing some insights and hopefully additional key learnings on a very interesting topic.
Don’t Be a Victim
The easiest thing for a business leader to do when challenges arise is to blame the world and feel like a victim. Political leaders are pushing the boundaries of what we once thought were uncrossable lines. The economy is unpredictable. Competitors are aggressive. Customers can’t make up their minds. Regulators are relentless. Internal processes break. People disappoint. It’s a long list, and there will never be a shortage of things to point at and say, “That’s why we’re struggling.”
But leadership is not about cataloging misfortune. It’s about taking responsibility, even in the face of unfairness, uncertainty, and complexity. Victimhood may offer temporary emotional relief, an excuse or a moment of sympathy, but it erodes credibility and saps the will to take action. A leader who positions themselves as a victim invites stagnation. A leader who owns the challenge, even when they didn’t cause it, accelerates the time it takes to find a solution.
Of course, this doesn’t mean pretending things are fine. Denial is just as dangerous as victimhood. Authentic leadership lies in acknowledging the reality without becoming defined by it. It’s about saying, “Yes, this is hard. And here’s how we’re going to respond.”
Don’t Sound Like a Victim
Victim thinking is contagious. In teams, it sounds like:
Over time, this mindset becomes a cultural default, a subtle, creeping resignation that convinces people they’re passengers, not drivers. And when that happens, even high-potential teams underperform.
By contrast, ownership is also contagious. When a leader models personal responsibility, not just for results, but for energy, mindset, and behavior, they set a standard that others can rise to meet. They create a culture where challenges spark creativity, not complaints, where problems are puzzles to solve, not reasons to retreat.
The shift away from victimhood begins with a simple question: What can I influence? Not What’s wrong? Not “Who’s to blame?” But. “What’s within my control, and what am I going to do about it?”
In business, circumstances will continually change. Strategies will occasionally fail. People will sometimes let you down. The question is not whether hardship will arise, as we all know there will always be challenges, it’s what kind of leader you’ll be when it does. Will you shrink, complain, and wait for rescue? Or will you stand up, stay grounded, and move forward anyway?
The best leaders don’t just weather storms. They use them to clarify what matters, rally their teams, and make bold, necessary decisions. They acknowledge the challenge without letting it dictate their identity or actions.
So yes, markets will wobble, supply chains will break, and setbacks will come. But don’t be a victim. Be the leader who says, “This is ours to figure out.” That mindset won’t just change your outcomes, it will change your culture.